Saturday, December 17, 2016

Self Love U: Emotional Healing: Grieving Your Losses

Self Love U: Emotional Healing: Grieving Your Losses: There are two types of tears. Healthy healing tears and unhealthy victim tears.

Saturday, November 5, 2016

Self Love U: Affirmations for Detaching from Hurtful Persons

Self Love U: Affirmations for Detaching from Hurtful Persons: I am my own person. I do not need to worry about what __ is doing or thinking. That person is not my responsibility. My energy is better u...

Self Love U: 25 Ways to Stop Caring About a Hurtful Person

Self Love U: 25 Ways to Stop Caring About a Hurtful Person:  This article contains healing crystals of understanding that I've gained along the way. It's hard to let go of narcissistic, hurt...

Wednesday, October 26, 2016

Self Love U: Codependency & Caretaking

Self Love U: Codependency & Caretaking: It's tempting for those of us who are recovering from codependency to engage in caretaking of others. This is a behavior that's lear...

Owl Missed The Man Who Saved Her So Much She Couldn’t Stop Hugging Him

Saturday, September 10, 2016

Saturday, September 3, 2016

Self Love U: The Drama Triangle

Self Love U: The Drama Triangle: Here is the Drama Triangle which is a diagram of unhealthy, dysfunctional family dynamics. The Drama Triangle The Three Rolls of Victimhoo...

Self Love U: Victim Mentality Triggers Rescuer Trance

Self Love U: Victim Mentality Triggers Rescuer Trance: This phrase has been turning in my mind for several days now. I decided to stop and write about it quickly to help you, and to help myself...

Wednesday, August 31, 2016

Self Love U: Women Who Love Too Much

Self Love U: Women Who Love Too Much: Excerpt from "Women Who Love Too Much" by Robin Norwood from pgs 6-8 "... it's important to understand, however, tha...

Tuesday, August 30, 2016

Self Love U: Standing In Your Own Column of Light

Self Love U: Standing In Your Own Column of Light: Someone once told me to "stand in my own column of light" in reference to a relationship issue I was having at the time. This p...

Self Love U: Who Cares What She Thinks?

Self Love U: Who Cares What She Thinks?: I have always been overly concerned about what other people think about me and my life. I know I'm not the only one who does this, but...

Wednesday, August 10, 2016

Self Love U: Self Knowledge and dealing with Negativity (Video ...

Self Love U: Self Knowledge and dealing with Negativity (Video ...: Self Knowledge and dealing with Negativity 1 Self Knowledge and dealing with Negativity 2 Self Knowledge and dealing with Negativit...

Friday, July 15, 2016

Self Love U: Shaming Should Statements

Self Love U: Shaming Should Statements: Shaming Should Statements: I should have gotten up and left. I should have said something to her. I should make more money. I shou...

Friday, July 8, 2016

Self Love U: Understanding that the Narcissist Doesn't Love You...

Self Love U: Understanding that the Narcissist Doesn't Love You...: One of the most difficult things about being abused by a malignant narcissist is coming to terms with the fact that the person never reall...